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December 29th

Prayer and Fasting

Fasting and abstaining aren't just ancient traditions—they're transformative practices that reshape our hearts and minds. In a world overflowing with distractions and dependencies, choosing to set aside our comforts can be a radical act of faith. These disciplines empower us to seek God more earnestly, break free from worldly attachments, and cultivate a life of prayerful dependence. Join us as we explore the biblical foundations of fasting and abstaining, embrace their spiritual benefits, and journey together towards a deeper, more triumphant walk with our Savior.

Speakers
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David Terry
Executive Worship Pastor
Worship
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When You Walk into the Room
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Defender
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You Deserve It All
Josh Baldwin
Notes

What is Fasting

Fasting - to completely refrain from eating for a designated period of time for the purpose of increasing hunger and seeking God.


Examples of Fasting in the Bible

  • Day of Atonement - Leviticus 23
  • Moses - Exodus 34
  • Hannah - 1 Samuel 1
  • Ezra - Ezra 8
  • Nehemiah - Nehemiah 1
  • Esther - Esther 4
  • Jehoshaphat - 2 Chronicles 20
  • Nineveh - Jonah 3
  • Anna - Luke 2
  • Jesus - Matthew 4
  • Jesus Instructs the Disciples in Fasting - Matthew 9 & 6
  • Saul/Paul - Acts 9
  • Paul & Barnabas - Acts 13 & 14

Thomas A. Tarrants
“What are some of the reasons biblical people fasted? They cover a range of things, including national emergencies, deliverance from danger, protection, help in sickness or some other difficult situation, special guidance, and humbling oneself before God and drawing near to Him. Sometimes grief, mourning or lamentation, or sorrow over a particular sin or sins were reasons for fasting, as well as breaking bondages to certain sins. Fasting is also connected with seeking deliverance for the oppressed. In some instances, it is involved in receiving revelation from God.

In both testaments, fasting is simply going without food in order to seek God for some special reason. Although the purposes for which we seek God may vary, going without food does not. This is an important distinction, because today there is a tendency to expand the word fasting to include things other than food, such as television, movies, internet, social media, or cell phones. Although it is certainly right to abstain from any number of things that are hindering our relationship with God, that is not what the Bible means by fasting. Such abstaining is better described as “saying no” to some form of worldliness or harmful fleshly indulgence.”


Abstaining - to voluntarily remove certain comforts for a designated period of time in order to set aside more time to seek God and break from our attachments to the world.


1 Corinthians 7:4-5 NASB
“4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise the husband also does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”


Question 17 of the New City Catechism for Kids: “What is idolatry?”
Answer: “Idolatry is trusting in created things rather than the creator.”


Without a regular rhythm of cutting off our connection to the things of the world, our dependence drifts from being fully in God to created things. Abstinence breaks the world’s hold on our hope and trust.

Fasting is to completely refrain from eating for a designated period of time for the purpose of increasing hunger and seeking God.

Abstaining is to voluntarily remove certain comforts for a designated period of time in order to set aside more time to seek God and break from our attachments to the world.

Fasting and Abstaining are practices to position our hearts and lives to prioritize God. Prayer is the posture of living aware of God.

Wherever we find prayer, we find God in the midst of His people. God is never more active than when prayer is practiced.


1 Thessalonians 5:16-25

16 Rejoice always, 17 pray without ceasing, 18 in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.
19 Do not quench the Spirit, 20 do not utterly reject prophecies, 21 but examine everything; hold firmly to that which is good, 22 abstain from every form of evil.
23 Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body be kept complete, without blame at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.
24 Faithful is He who calls you, and He also will do it.
25 Brothers and sisters, pray for us.

Prayer - the constant, thankful examination of life with God that allows us to firmly hold God’s goodness in our heart to continue in us the completion of His work of sanctification.


1 Thessalonians 5:16-25 (Broken Down)

  • 16 Rejoice always,

  • 17 pray without ceasing,

  • 18 in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

  • 19 Do not quench the Spirit,

  • 20 do not utterly reject prophecies,

  • 21 but examine everything; hold firmly to that which is good,

  • 22 abstain from every form of evil.

  • 23 Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body be kept complete, without blame at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

  • 24 Faithful is He who calls you, and He also will do it.

  • 25 Brothers and sisters, pray for us.


Legalism and the Shame Cycle

Shame & Guilt > Behavior Modification Through Legalistic Rules > Success > Fear/Pride > Plateau > Shame & Guilt


Galatians 5:13, 16-25

13 For you were called to freedom, brothers and sisters; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through love. . . .
16 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh.
17 For the desire of the flesh is against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, in order to keep you from doing whatever you want. 
18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law.
19 Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: sexual immorality, impurity, indecent behavior, 20 idolatry, witchcraft, hostilities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions, 21 envy, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
24 Now those who belong to Christ Jesus crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.
25 If we live by the Spirit, let’s follow the Spirit as well.


Galatians 5:13, 16-25 (Broken Down)

  • 13 For you were called to freedom, brothers and sisters; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through love.

  • 19 Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: sexual immorality, impurity, indecent behavior,

  • 20 idolatry, witchcraft, hostilities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions,

  • 21 envy, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

  • 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

  • 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

  • 24 Now those who belong to Christ Jesus crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

  • 25 If we live by the Spirit, let’s follow the Spirit as well.


Corporate Rhythms

  1. 21 Days (January)
  2. The Digital Fast (March)
  3. National Day of Prayer (May 1st: Morning, Noon, and Night)

Personal Rhythms

  1. Monday Morning Prayer
  2. Midweek Prayer
  3. Weekly Fasting (1 day a week)
    Table Talk
  • Prayer & Fasting || 1 Thessalonians 5:16-25 “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus. Do not quench the Spirit, do not utterly reject prophecies, but examine everything; hold firmly to that which is good, abstain from every form of evil. Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body be kept complete, without blame at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. Faithful is He who calls you, and He also will do it. Brothers and sisters, pray for us.”


    1. Explain the difference between fasting and abstaining. Did you know they were different before?

    2. Have you ever fasted before? Did you find yourself compromising when it was a long fast?

    3. Is this something you feel the Holy Spirit leading you to do? If so, what can you do to make this a personal rhythm in your life?

    4. Is there a corporate rhythm of Fasting, Abstaining and Praying that you are wanting to participate in?

    Remember by creating rhythms in our lives that create the right circumstances, it allows our spirit to then have the nutrients it needs to then produce the fruit of the Spirit.

  • December Series: The Promiser


    Power Verse: “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” Deuteronomy 31:8

    Week 5 Lesson: Forgiveness (1 John 1:9)
    What happens when we confess our sins? Jesus forgives us
    What does it mean to be faithful? To continue doing something again and again
    Why do we need God’s forgiveness? So we can be right with God
    What happens when we’re right with God? We’re part of His Kingdom
    How many times are we supposed to forgive others? All the times!
    Is there anything you need to confess to God?
    Is there anyone you need to forgive?

  • December Series: The Promiser


    Power Verse: “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” Deuteronomy 31:8

    Week 5 Lesson: Forgiveness (1 John 1:9)
    What happens when we confess our sins? Jesus forgives us
    What does it mean to be faithful? To continue doing something again and again
    Why do we need God’s forgiveness? So we can be right with God
    What happens when we’re right with God? We’re part of His Kingdom
    How many times are we supposed to forgive others? All the times!
    Is there anything you need to confess to God?
    Is there anyone you need to forgive?

  • Pre-K Power Verse: “For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son so whoever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life.” John 3:16
    Learn the Pre-K power verse motions here!

    Week 5 Lesson: The Christmas Story Overview
    1. What were Jesus’ earthly parents’ names? Mary & Joseph
    2. What appeared in the sky? Angels
    3. Who did the angels appear to? The shepherds
    4. After the shepherds found Jesus, what did they do? Told everyone in town about Jesus!
    5. What did the wisemen give Jesus? Gold, frankincense and myrrh
    5. Who can you tell about Jesus?

    NEW!! Pick up a December parent resource page from your child’s class!

  • Twos & Threes Power Verse: “For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son so whoever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life.” John 3:16
    Learn the John 3:16 motions here!

    Month Long Lesson: Jesus is Born!
    1. Who was in Mary’s tummy?
    2. Who put Jesus in Mary’s tummy?
    3. Who chose to be Jesus’ dad on Earth?
    4. What animals do you think were in the barn?
    5. What did Jesus grow up and do?
    6. Do we say yes or no to Jesus?
    7. What do you love about Jesus?
    8. Who can you share Jesus with?

    answers

    1| Jesus 2| God 3| Joseph 4| cows, sheep, etc. 5| brought the Kingdom and died on the cross 6| yes!

    NEW!! Pick up a December parent resource page from your child’s class!